Empath
Imagine yourself in a crowded room.
One man, a good man with a loving wife and two growing children, will go home and tell his wife he’s been fired. A young woman will break up with her boyfriend when he arrives to collect her. A married woman is meeting her lover. A clergyman contemplates the confession he heard earlier today; should he break confidentiality and tell the police? A sports graduate has just learned that he has terminal cancer.
All of it, their pain, fear, disgust, sorrow, desire, greed, guilt, intrudes upon my consciousness. My emotions become nothing and I am so overwhelmed by the enormity of it all that I have to retreat to a place within myself.
It wasn’t always like this. One day, I woke up with another sense. I thought I was going insane; I very nearly did. Perhaps it was inevitable that my circle of friends became quite small, but I grieved each one that I lost. Its hard to remain friends with someone once you understand that their feelings for you don’t match yours for them.
I don’t read their minds. Its not like I’m eavesdropping. Its more like they invade me. I didn’t ask for this!
I found ways to deal. You have to, don’t you? Just like anything put in your path. I don’t go to parties. I shop on Mondays, early, when its quiet. I avoid crowds and don’t use public transport. And I never, ever, tell anyone my secret. I told a friend once. She never trusted me again; said she felt I was listening to her thoughts! I was hurt, but I learned from that. Honesty isn’t always the best policy.
So today, I am walking in the park. Children are playing and I feel the constant thrum of their quick fire existence – little dragonflies, buzzing through the light spring air. I tune in to their darting vibrations and it helps me escape the ticker tape of emotion that streams across my awareness with unrelenting monotony.
Pain. Sorrow. Loneliness. Fear.
The bitter tang of despair intrudes upon the bright colours of childhood and without even knowing it I turn my steps towards a small group of houses at the edge of the park. I find myself, quite beyond my own will, standing outside a quiet cottage. I knock lightly on the door, but there is no answer, so I knock more loudly.
“May I come in?” No-one answers but I am certain that there is someone inside. Its an old fashioned door, with a handle on the outside. Turning it, the door opens.
You should understand I am not driven by curiosity. You might argue that no-one has invited me into this home and I am almost certainly breaking the law. But an urgent sense of need pulls me onward and – powerless to stop it – I walk down a darkened hallway and enter a small sitting room.
A shrunken little figure huddles by a cheerless fire, its ashes long cold. A teacup has spilled upon the threadbare carpet, but only a sad stain bears testament to the presence of a warming brew. Beside it lies an upturned picture frame. But that can wait. I wrap the poor soul in a blanket and quickly build a fire – how easy the task is when you are able!
“Can you tell me your name? Does anyone else live here with you?” But she doesn’t speak, nor does she seem to be aware of me, although she has warmed up a little. I reach out for some spark of response but all I feel is a deep sense of loss. So I sit, holding her hand in mine, bringing her cold fingers back to life.
“My goodness, look at your lovely pictures. Is this you with this handsome young man? Ah, this must be your family. Such fine looking boys, all the way from school to university!” I prattle on mindlessly, speaking her life into the silence of the room, for upon the walls is her story. A wartime bride in a homemade dress, a bouquet of daisies in her hand. Here are the children, two sturdy boys wearing home spun sweaters. They grow like weeds and then they fly away, as boys do. All their precious moments are cameos upon the canvas of her home.
Finally, I reach down beside her chair, and pick up the frame. His hair is white, and so is hers, but they smile into still sparkling eyes. Still young in their hearts. Carefully, I place the precious memento into her frail hand. Her eyes flutter open for a moment and she smiles slightly. The cold indifference that called me here is gone, perhaps the fear is too. I feel something … hope, I think. Yes.
Don’t ask me how I know all this. Like I said, sometimes it’s a burden. But today, it’s a gift. Oh, not for me really, I just carry it until its needed and then I give it away. The medics will probably come soon but I don’t think there’s any hurry. She’s drifting quietly away and quite honestly, I don’t think she’s afraid. I close my eyes too and in my mind, I see a young woman running into the arms of a young serviceman. Her hand is quite cold by the time the ambulance comes, but her lips are curved into a girlish smile.